Take a moment to read through these two scriptures.
First,
"Hearing that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, the Pharisees got together. One of them, an expert in the law, tested him with this question: "Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?"
Jesus replied: "'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.'This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.' All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments." Matt 22:34-40 (NIV)
And now,
"Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres."- 1 Cor 13:4-6 (NIV)
This is what the Kingdom of God should look like. This is how we should be treating our friends, family, actually everyone we come into contact with.
It's a high standard, not easy to live up to, but one we should indeed strive to achieve. Anything less, is less than what God requires of us.